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SELF IMPROVEMENT POWER. Happy people don’t just accept change, they embrace it.

When we look at a certain object, a painting for example ? we won’t be able to appreciate what’s in it, what is painted and what else goes with it if the painting is just an inch away from our face. But if we try to take it a little further, we?ll have a clearer vision of the whole art work.
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We reach a point in our life when we are ready for change and a whole bunch of information that will help us unlock our self improvement power. Until then, something can be staring us right under our nose but we don?t see it. The only time we think of unlocking our self improvement power is when everything got worst. Take the frog principle for example ?

Try placing Frog A in a pot of boiling water. What happens? He twerps! He jumps off! Why? Because he is not able to tolerate sudden change in his environment ? the water?s temperature. Then try Frog B: place him in a luke warm water, then turn the gas stove on. Wait til the water reaches a certain boiling point. Frog B then thinks ?Ooh? it?s a bit warm in here?.

People are like Frog B in general. Today, Anna thinks Carl hates her. Tomorrow, Patrick walks up to her and told her he hates her. Anna stays the same and doesn?t mind her what her friends says. The next day, she learned that Kim and John also abhors her. Anna doesn?t realize at once the importance and the need for self improvement until the entire community hates her.

We learn our lessons when we experience pain. We finally see the warning signs and signals when things get rough and tough. When do we realize that we need to change diets? When none of our jeans and shirts would fit us. When do we stop eating candies and chocolates? When all of our teeth has fallen off. When do we realize that we need to stop smoking? When our lungs have gone bad. When do we pray and ask for help? When we realize that we?re gonna die tomorrow.

The only time most of us ever learn about unlocking our self improvement power is when the whole world is crashing and falling apart. We think and feel this way because it is not easy to change. But change becomes more painful when we ignore it.

Change will happen, like it or hate it. At one point or another, we are all going to experience different turning points in our life ? and we are all going to eventually unlock our self improvement power not because the world says so, not because our friends are nagging us, but because we realized its for our own good.

Happy people don’t just accept change, they embrace it. Now, you don’t have to feel a tremendous heat before realizing the need for self improvement. Unlocking your self improvement power means unlocking yourself up in the cage of thought that ?its just the way I am?. It is such a poor excuse for people who fear and resist change. Most of us program our minds like computers.

Jen repeatedly tells everyone that she doesn’t have the guts to be around groups of people. She heard her mom, her dad, her sister, her teacher tell the same things about her to other people. Over the years, that is what Jen believes. She believes its her story. And what happens? Every time a great crowd would troop over their house, in school, and in the community ? she tends to step back, shy away and lock herself up in a room. Jen didn?t only believed in her story, she lived it.

Jen has to realize that she is not what she is in her story. Instead of having her story post around her face for everyone to remember, she has to have the spirit and show people ?I am an important person and I should be treated accordingly!?

Self improvement may not be everybody’s favorite word, but if we look at things in a different point of view, we might have greater chances of enjoying the whole process instead of counting the days until we are fully improved. Three sessions in a week at the gym would result to a healthier life, reading books instead of looking at porns will shape up a more profound knowledge, going out with friends and peers will help you take a step back from work and unwind. And just when you are enjoying the whole process of unlocking your self improvement power, you’ll realize that you’re beginning to take things light and become happy.

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  1. Alessi Sara
    May 15th, 2012 at 19:11 | #1

    Ho Yan Hor Herbal Tea founded by Dr. Ho Kai Cheong the founder of Hovid Berhad is a Chinese herbal tea recipe that contains of 24 herbs 12 of them are known either to have antipyretic or have been used to treat fever.

  2. Brown Jacque
    May 16th, 2012 at 02:49 | #2

    I was expecting it to be a little flat and not to taste rich and full since it is an herbal tea but I was pleasantly surprised.

  3. Frances
    May 27th, 2012 at 09:21 | #3

    In a journal published by the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition herbal tea has been proved to have some health benefits.

  4. Deon Dyches
    May 29th, 2012 at 02:46 | #4

    Let?s see what ingredients this herbal tea holds and how they are effective with insomnia and other sleep disorders.

  5. Ashley Pritchard
    May 31st, 2012 at 21:21 | #5

    One of my favorite sleepy teas to have is the Celestial Seasonings Sleepy Time Vanilla Herbal Tea. This tea helps soothe the mind and body using natural herbs and a calming vanilla aroma and flavor.

  6. John
    June 2nd, 2012 at 10:52 | #6

    Results: Conventional black tea and herbal tea of the type tested both resulted in tooth surface loss.

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